You may have heard
Bobby McFerrin or the even more "laid back"
Bob Marley singing, "Don't Worry,
Be Happy."
But the "original" Hebrew song has been sung at Purim celebrations for
years in Synagogues around the world. "Mishenichnas Adar Marbim
Besimcha," goes the snappy jingle, meaning, from the start of Adar our
joy increases. But did you ever wonder why we are commanded to
Be Happy
during the Hebrew month of Adar? Rashi explains that just as our joy
is reduced in the month of Av because of the destruction of the Temple
and exile, our joy is increased in Adar because of our salvation by God,
first on Purim and then on Pesach. (Ta'anit 29A).
This Wednesday night from 4:30-7 PM we'll be reading the Megillah
and enjoying the Purim shpiel from"Diary a Wimpy King" performed by our
students. Not to mention the goldfish, games, hotdogs, and
hamentashen. In chapter 9, the reason for our joy become clear. We are
told that we should transform our grief at almost being annihilated by
Haman into rejoicing. We are to make the 14th of Adar a holiday
celebrated "in every generation, by every family, in every province and
city. It is a day of feasting and merrymaking; a time to send gifts to
one another and presents to the poor. These days of Purim shall never
cease among the Jews, and shall never perish from amongst their
descendants."
Well now that we understand why we're to be happy during the month
containing Purim, I'm left wondering what about the next month of
Nisan? We'll be slaving away cleaning and preparing for Pesach. Songs
of liberation aside, how shall we stay happy then, and the rest of the
year?
Mary J. Blige gave us an answer when she crooned, "All I really
want is to be happy." She says that joy comes from loving someone, and
receiving love in return. To that Grammy worthy advice I'll add these
two pearls of wisdom: Don't take life or yourself too seriously (so come
in costume) and always be on the lookout for things that make you
laugh and smile (I guarantee you'll find this year's performance
hilarious).
Hag Purim Samayach,
Rabbi Molash Niktolp